Life changing events ,what should I do?

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Life changing events ,what should I do?

July 01, 2024, 01:27:51 pm

Hi everyone thinking hard about going full-time in a Foretravel . If I do this I'm set on a Foretravel for sure. Just a little background to help with the discussion. I was diagnosed with LEUKEMIA ALL January 2023. I'm doing pretty good considering. But lost job had to go on disability. Wife basically works for insurance she has her own health problems. Her job may be coming to an end soon. I'm planning on selling our little farm ,paying off most of our debt. Cancer has wiped out savings and medical bills continues...
I'm looking at
2003 U320 4020 PBBS For Sale
166,803 Miles Stock # C3147
$119,500 I like the layout

1999 Foretravel Class A RV
U295 3600 WTFE For Sale
111,387 Miles Just Arrived Stock # C3071
$54,500 good price no slides?

Used 2002 Foretravel Class A RV
U270 36 For Sale
173,500 Miles OBO
$59,000 ( this one has best po. up keep a big plus and price but what about milage?)
I'm probably leaning towards this one the most because of the maintenance and up keep.

2000 U320 3600 WTFE For Sale
64,384 Miles Just Arrived Stock # C3168
$74,500 this one like the above but u320 upgrades and milage.

Used 2000 Foretravel Class A RV
U320 4210 DGFE For Sale
Just Arrived Stock # C3073
$69,500 really like the floor plan only one I've seen with this kitchen I like the closet and washer and dryer in the rear. But it is a 42' .
What's your thoughts on this??? I have to make a big decision. I have owned a fith wheel. And have drove Class A tractor and trailer. What about getting in and out of parks in the 42' have read comments but in comparison at what I'm looking at . Your help is much appreciated and need. Thank you.

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Reply #1 – July 01, 2024, 02:18:41 pm

Hi Keith, very sorry to hear about your medical woes. My wife was diagnosed with cancer when we were full-timing in a U320. The only good thing about it was the couple nights before operations that we were able to park at the cancer center. Otherwise it just ended up being another [big] stressor while we had enough to worry about. These things are not even CLOSE to worry free, and especially so if you pick up an unknown quantity from a place like MOT. You will easily spend your first year just sorting out bugs and when it's your home, and you don't own the land you're living on, those bugs often can't be ignored. My wife continues to have medical issues and having a house/base of operations we can fall back on when things get hard is incredibly valuable. Even if it were just an apartment, it'd be 10x better than just having a Foretravel.

That said, if you choose to move forward I'd try to find one owned by a member of this forum, or that Keith Risch has personally inspected at his shop in Nacadoches.

Barring that suggestion, I'd skip the 2003 and 2002 simply due to the price point and added points of failure that come with a tag/multiple slides/aqua hot/etc.. The only one in your list where mileage is a concern is the 2000. Low miles = not getting used.

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Reply #2 – July 01, 2024, 06:31:56 pm

Hi Keith. I am also sorry to hear about your current situation. Elliot gave you some tremendous advice.
Many of us on this forum are facing age, health and income changes.
Aside from the operation and maintenance, moving into a motorhome from a small farm -- or any dwelling will mean you have to either store, sell or discard many of your belongings. Then there is residency? What will you use for a mailing address? Where are your doctors located?
RV parks are getting to be very expensive and many have 9 or 10 year old rules and will not rent spaces for older RV's.
There is a lot to think about in making the decision to live in a motorhome.
Hope this helps.

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Reply #3 – July 01, 2024, 08:35:52 pm

We have been fulltime for 10 years. It has been a great experience. However things a not like they where when we started. Camp ground prices, fuel costs, boondocking spots over crowded, the high cost of repairs, and finding a shop that will work on them (250 an hour) have us thinking of purchasing a stick and bricks for a home base. Throw in on going medical issues it could be quite a challenge. As Elliot said these old coaches are great but they can be a challenge. If you proceed I would seriously look the much simpler non slide no aqua hot coaches. Good luck on what ever you decide to do

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Reply #4 – July 01, 2024, 11:59:39 pm

Thank you all. This really helps in knowing what is out there before getting out there and not being able to get back. Real life experience is the best teacher.

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Reply #5 – July 02, 2024, 07:54:43 am

Thoughts...

Forty-two feet is very long. We had a 40-foot coach for a short time, and I found it a little scary.

My opinion is that a good floor plan beats a slide. I have not been in FTs with slides, so maybe you get both.

Our last two coaches I bought more for the vibe I got from the seller than specific features. I know that sounds dumb, but I seem to get a feeling when we find the right one.

See a coach in person before you put much energy into considering it. We drove from Tucson to Nacogdoches to leave with one at a used dealer, and the condition was appalling.

If I may...

We are having some health issues at our house too. Our thoughts are more about having personal space, and dividing our existence for reasons of rest, different schedules, and combating infection. Adding a new coach and traveling would be totally overwhelming. Our recent thoughts are all about grocery delivery, the responsibilities of getting the bills paid, and encouraging friends to check on us regularly.

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Reply #6 – July 02, 2024, 02:48:46 pm

I am agreeing more and more,Oldmattb.
I live on the border of TN and Va. In the smoky mountains. Me and my wife both are from East TN , grew up here. We are both 54. I was given 3 months to live. I'm now over 1 and 1/2 years in. And 8 months in on 3 year maintenance chemo plan.
They are giving me 3 to 5 years now. Know one really knows but (one). I go to Duke NC once a month for chemo and check up, blood work. The thing is I want to travel and see some things with my wife. Red Woods,Yosemite, Yellowstone, the Rockies
Northern Idaho, Organ, British Columbia Niagara Falls, Canada,the Northern Lights..
I don't have the money if I don't Sale my home . I can't afford my home and up keep with my current debt. I may refinance and consolidate. I will lose my great presentage rate. But that is what is.
I feel good now, there my be a time when I can't do it. If I wait I my never do it. Or I can Sale and down size, and just keep doing what I'm doing barley making it check to check... decisions are the worst. What it would be to be young again!!! No worries!

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Reply #7 – July 02, 2024, 04:09:59 pm

Keith, very sorry to her about your situation. Perhaps consider selling everything, paying off debt and renting a small apartment. That way you may be able to achieve your travel goals.

An older motorhome can be a money pit.

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Reply #8 – July 02, 2024, 04:47:09 pm

We are kinda thinking that way Jeff and Sandy. I've never lived in an apartment but for 4 months while I remold an older hose to move into. I know that even the best motor home can be an expense. Just thinking if I could get the right u295 no slides, that someone has really taken care of. I could do this for 3 to 5 years and then settle down maybe rent a small place somewhere. Am I'm just dreaming??? That is kind why I'm here asking y'all with experience. And I am hearing that I my not be able to make it happen just to much of a risk money wise, for where I am now in life. When you finely have the time ,you don't have the health. When you had your health you worked your life away trying to get to the point to enjoy a little bit of life... thank you all for your honest and helpful direction.

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Reply #9 – July 02, 2024, 05:01:46 pm

Keith
What you are wanting to do is not out of the question or unreasonable. Your best bet is to find a coach from a member here on the forum that has been well maintained and cared for. A mid to late 90's U295 or even a Grandvilla would suit your needs in my opinion.

Never give up, you only live once, keep looking and planning. Wish you the best. Keep us updated.

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Reply #10 – July 02, 2024, 05:16:47 pm

Quote from: Keith Metcalf – July 02, 2024, 04:47:09 pm

We are kinda thinking that way Jeff and Sandy. I've never lived in an apartment but for 4 months while I remold an older hose to move into. I know that even the best motor home can be an expense. Just thinking if I could get the right u295 no slides, that someone has really taken care of. I could do this for 3 to 5 years and then settle down maybe rent a small place somewhere. Am I'm just dreaming??? That is kind why I'm here asking y'all with experience. And I am hearing that I my not be able to make it happen just to much of a risk money wise, for where I am now in life. When you finely have the time ,you don't have the health. When you had your health you worked your life away trying to get to the point to enjoy a little bit of life... thank you all for your honest and helpful direction.

I don't think you're dreaming.... or not too much anyway.
When you have a short runway, some things become more important than before.
In my opinion it just comes down to finding the right coach for your needs, at the right price for you.
Check out the classified section on a regular basis and keep on dreaming, you've earned it.

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Reply #11 – July 03, 2024, 09:42:06 am

Just a bit of our story and some thoughts. I made a leap of faith and said "Yes" when my husband wanted to see it all and live on the road. I loved my home (3000 sq ft stone farmhouse built in 1841) and never wanted to leave it ... but I knew I would spend the rest of my days in that home looking out of the windows instead of living life. So ... I kept what was dearest to me in a climate controlled storage and girded my loins for an adventure. We spent 5 years on the road and I would still be happily do just that if back issues That made it difficult for my husband to drive and the beginnings of other health issues had not made it necessary for us to alter our lifestyle. We had a 40' rig that I could drive, but not be the ONLY driver! Once a year we visited my treasures in the storage unit and got rid of more things I "needed to keep".
My first thought when reading your story was "Does his wife intend to drive the rig?" She MUST be able to drive it. If you are suddenly taken ill, she needs to be able to get from A to B. Most hospitals (except, perhaps, inner city) have space available for you to park on the short term while receiving some treatment. Not hookups, but space. I know folks who have had hip replacements and recovered in their rig, treatments of heart ailments, etc. The next issue is Plan B. There always has to be an inkling of what you would do in urgent circumstances. Escapees is an organization that really caters to needs of their members who may need respite stays. Look into their philosophy and what they are able to do for their members. We used a fine mail forwarding service in South Dakota. Easy licensing, low taxes and registration, visit in person every couple of years to renew. What happens if you very suddenly have to go off the road? Will your cash reserve be sufficient to rent an apartment and regroup? Is there family who will "take you in" short term? Is there a network of doctors who can continue your treatment as you travel?

I am sure you have thought of these things. For me, seeing as many National Parks as possible, crisscrossing the country and taking it all in, meeting SO many wonderful people ... made leaving my little bubble all worthwhile. We both grew up in SE Pennsylvania. Once we crossed the Mississippi and got into the wide open spaces ... something just exploded in my head. I never thought I would live in the East again. We settled in Tucson when we stopped full timing. I LOVED the desert! Never would have left, but issues with Mr Wonderful made it necessary to be near family. I am happy here North Carolina and will be fine alone here in our little house if that day comes ... we had our Plan B AND Plan C.

You can't plan for every contingency. However, some of the best advice I was ever given was, "Do things before you HAVE to, so you are not at the mercy of urgent circumstances.". . You will work it out.

All the best. C

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Reply #12 – July 03, 2024, 10:03:42 am

Another option is to travel "full-time" without the motorhome all together. My brother has been doing it for the last two years. He hunts for good deals on AirBnB's, often stays for a month or so, and sees the country that way. Just him and his Ford Mustang. His nightly cost is about the same as if you were to RV... if you factor in maintenance and fuel, it's cheaper.

Now don't get me wrong, by brother prioritizes the cost of his AirBnBs over location/prime season/etc.. and that often dictates his travel, but he's still seen about as much as the country as I have without the hassle of a motorhome.

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Reply #13 – July 03, 2024, 10:53:39 am

Kieth please understand you are talking to the most biased group because we all have coached for what ever reason. I completely understand your idea, but personally I wouldnt want to add a lot more stress to your already stress filled life. I'd reccomend either leasing or renting, but staying free from the commitment a coach ownership would bring. Sorry for your circumstances. Today the coach may work but with changes coming it would be an anchor for your wife. IMO

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Reply #14 – July 03, 2024, 03:00:07 pm

I loved my 42 foot coach. I lived in it during radiation and it lived just like a house. I had a 34 and 36 as well and they all lived well. If I had to choose right now I would go with a non slide cheaper unit like you mentioned. Simpler and less issues but a foretravel is still expensive to operate. I downsized to a 29 foot class c and total costs of repairs since 2017 is less than a set of tires and I had a couple big ticket items on the f550. Seeing the country is why you would buy one and not to sit still and that increases the cost. Hard to say without seeing them but if you pick your floor plan you will be happy with and let the size follow I had no issues with any of my coaches getting around the parks I wanted to stay in. If you plan on noondocking in national forests you are going to need a much different style of motorhome for full access.

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Reply #15 – July 03, 2024, 03:29:13 pm

Wow. Thank you all very much. Elliot, DSD, Carol. My wife can drive, her dad was a trucker, and I can help her. We have a great support team and family here at home. Some strown across the country. I do worry about leaving my wife with a burden. But I really want to spend some good times with her before I go. I really like the ideal of the Airbnb. Thanks Elliot. We will look at that avenue more closely. My wife and I have only been married 4yrs. Known each other from the age of 6, grew up on the same mountain in east tn. After years of life and the changes that brings we came together and have started a new chapter. Thanks again, it is very much appreciated.

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Reply #16 – July 03, 2024, 11:33:25 pm

Keith, we are on the other side of the teeter totter. Lynda was given 6 months in June 2020 after chemo failed to address her lung cancer. Her primary doctor had me put a DNR notice on the refrigerator. We immediately dropped plans for the extended future and started living for the day. She is now no worse off than she was then and her Oncologist can give no explanation other than if she is happy with her condition just keep doing what we are doing. So don't give up on yourself and do things that make you and your wife happy.

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Reply #17 – July 04, 2024, 01:26:19 am

Thanks Chuck and Lynda. They will see claw marks when we go .we are hanging on our best wishes to you both. It's just as hard on the caretaker as the one with the ailments,maybe even more .

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Reply #18 – July 04, 2024, 10:05:44 am

Keith, we are luckier than you as I am still healthy enough to help Lynda. If the conditions were reversed we would not be able to use the coach and do what we are doing. If you have relatives that will help you don't be too proud to use the help. I am already looking for who would take over for me if Lynda out survives me.

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Reply #19 – July 04, 2024, 01:49:31 pm

I can't give advice on what you should do. But I can give you my experience full timing in a Motorhome. I retired October 23. I had always wanted a MH and to travel the country. So my wife and I are doing just that. This is my first MH and the learning curve has been steep. I was also surprised at how much work it is moving these things down the road. And there is always something to fix. Don't get me wrong, we both love the lifestyle. But it's not easy and definitely not cheap. I do all the driving, route planning, setup and tear down. If your wife is going to be doing that she will have to be committed to this adventure or will quickly tire of it. When I first started I was killing my self trying to do long distances. Drive all day and pull in for the night, get up the next morning rinse and repeat. I had to remind myself. You are retired and have no schedule. SLOW down. So now I pick somewhere 200 miles down the road and my minimum stay is two days. Much more low stress. These things are fiberglass holes you throw money into. You just have to decide if the lifestyle is worth it to you and your wife. For us the answer was yes. One last thing on MHs. The sales price is just the beginning of the money hemorrhage. They said plan on spending 10% of the sales price on maintenance and getting all the bugs worked out. For me it was more like 15%. I hope you find the right path for you and your wife.

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Reply #20 – July 05, 2024, 01:43:52 am

Quote from: Res777 – July 04, 2024, 01:49:31 pm

.These things are fiberglass holes you throw money into.

My U320 dislikes your statement, all though, I agree with your statement.

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Reply #21 – July 05, 2024, 01:58:36 am

Everybody has a story. I started full timing in 2004 in a 1981 Foretravel Travco which was a well built diesel pusher at the time but it had hydraulic brakes whereas the later Foretravels had air brakes. I became a snow bird and migrated from AZ into NV and then OR & WA while doing some work on the internet, prospecting for gold in AZ, CA, & NV. Then I got into bounty fishing in WA during the summer and prospecting in the winter months. In 2016 I retired, sold the 1981 Foretravel for more than I paid for it and bought my current coach. I continued to snowbird until the virus hit. At that point, I rented some space at a friend's house in AZ and since then the longest trips I've made are regular trips to the local KOA to dump my waste tanks and take on fresh water.
I'm in pretty good shape for a 74 year old and still able to do the routine maintenance on the coach and my car but I wonder how much longer I'll be able to do it. Getting the coach ready to roll is more of a chore than it used to be.
I'm scheduled for cataract surgery later this month and again in August. That shouldn't be a big deal but I guess my point is none of us are getting younger. I like my doctors and I like my plan. I don't like the cold and I'm a long way from summer weather that's cool enough for me to even think about the trip.

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Reply #22 – July 05, 2024, 02:10:11 am

I know there will come a time when I can't do this. I have to try while I can,or I will continue doing what I'm doing until I can't.
I'm going to do it, I'm just waiting on the relator to give me some feedback on my place to see where I'm at. It's gonna take some time, maybe I will come to my senses before then...lol

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Reply #23 – July 05, 2024, 02:17:16 am

Quote from: Keith Metcalf – July 05, 2024, 02:10:11 am

I know there will come a time when I can't do this. I have to try while I can,or I will continue doing what I'm doing until I can't.
I'm going to do it, I'm just waiting on the relator to give me some feedback on my place to see where I'm at. It's gonna take some time, maybe I will come to my senses before then...lol

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results...
We are crazy but not insane!

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Reply #24 – July 05, 2024, 02:23:03 am

Dakota Slim
That's great, you give me even more of reason to do this. Thank you.

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